Tips for Arguing Couples

The intention behind this post is great, but IMO these questions are still masculine energy dressed up in a feminine energy costume. And you will attract a feminine-type man following this advice. Which.. is not bad in itself! .. and especially if that’s what you’re looking for, then this is the perfect advice. But if you’re trying to attract a masculine man that will be the leader when it comes to emotionally charged conversations, you have to allow a man to go through trials and tribulations in YOUR life. He’s coming into your world, and living in it.. how is he going to show up? Anyways, Men don’t need all of this reassurance—it’s giving mother 👧👶🏻 (not mommy 🔥). He should be the one reconnecting with you after a fight, you should be open to him of course and receptive.. even flirty and a bit spicy 🔥😝… but you’re still not the one initiating. He is. Even if it was something he did. Lol! He can take care of his feelings and develop the consciousness enough to know when the two of you are upset and experiencing a rupture. Mmm.. Even if it was YOU who did something. Lollll. HE should still come to you. And when he does.. you just be cute 🥺🌸💅.. Like hi we fought. If he’s the man that wants to be in your life.. He’s not gonna risk losing u. So he will always be there for you even when things get emotionally harder in life. But if you’re the glue in these kinds of conflicts … ok. But what happens when life hits and you’re no longer able to always be the one initiating… will he be the one who who will lead you when your emotional capacity is way lower than his?? Will he take care of u?? This is what you do in the courting phase of the relationship… you lean back and see if he’s capable of this kind of thing. It’s soooo important. Because women will always show up more emotionally than men. So you have to test him. To see if he will be good at it. It’s for your own future self’s sake. Anyways, my unsolicited two cents. 💝💰

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